My husband and I were married in a formal ceremony in April.  We wanted a medievalish ceremony, but my father was bankrolling the event and said I pay, I say .  What he said was that everything had to be totally modern.  We did manage to sneak a few things by him, like my cothardie-ish dress, the castle cake topper, and the harpist at the reception, but we want to do it over - although I know that this is unbearably cute, our personas aren't married. We are planning to do a medievalish wedding at our local 12th Night, which is an official but non-calendar event.  We have found a ceremony order that we like, but need help from creative people to come up with more romantic vows than I, Man, take you, Woman.  If it matters, I am an early 14th century German who sings, sews, weaves, and fences, and my husband is a mid- 15th century Frenchman who vints, woodworks, and fences. Any help you could give would be much appreciated. Yours in Service, Lady Birgitta Kingdom of Ansteorra Barony Bordermarch To respond by e-mail, lift the Latch